i just got mine done n a lot of people said it was hot... it depeneds on whose wearing it

Is it normal?

Yes, most women do not climax without direct clitoral stimulation. But that doesn't mean that you can't ever...nor that you can't train yourself to respond to other stimuli.

And yes, some women prefer the "doggie style" specifically because they are free to use their hands on themselves.

Don't worry. Enjoy.

Try Bushwackers and Dukes. But seriously I would like to know also!!!!!

Stephen Hawking.

Oh yeah. Went there, did that, and got the T-shirt - signed.

jessical alba

Nope!

"Friendly uncle"? I'm not gonna whip out the "OMG, he's a creepy pedophile!" card (it sounds consensual), but c'mon now.

Anyway, the lying and sneaking around is fucked up. I get that you're afraid of starting a scandal/drama/judgment-fest with your family and friends, but is there anyone who actually knows your husband whom you could confide in? People on the interwebz are mostly just going to react in shock (sounds like maybe you're looking for a harsh wake-up call?). It's hard for someone who doesn't know the history and nuances of your relationship to understand why you'd want to save this marriage, since everything you said in your post makes your husband sound like a colossal sleazebag; the only detail you left out is the white van.

I'm sure you have reasons for wanting to resolve these problems and stay married to him. I'm guessing that either your husband has some good qualities that you've grown attached to and don't expect to find in other relationships, or that this diseased-cum-spewing-dickhead behavior of his is a recent anomaly in what was once a not-so-fucked-up relationship. You didn't mention how long you've been together. Although I have hardly any information to go on (and this is why I hope you can talk to a friend/family member/bartender/whatever who'll give you an honest, informed opinion), I find it astronomically unlikely that any number of sweet memories, inches of penile prowess, or dollars donated to humanitarian causes could outweigh the fact that your husband has lied to you OVER and OVER again.

I don't necessarily believe in things like "once a cheater, always a cheater" (though exceptions to that one seem rare), but this doesn't seem to be a case of someone regretting bad behavior and trying to change it. He clearly doesn't want to change. And seriously, WTF, you're already in an open relationship, and isn't part of that kinda supposed to be about open communication?

(FAIL.)

Anyway, you can do better. At the very least, go explore the open side of your open relationship and get to know some people who are awesome and attractive AND have extra time to spend with you since they're not so busy hitting on their teenage step-nieces and buying them expensive sex toys and then covering their tracks buying you cheap replacement sex toys.

Well now, that is a good question. I'd say that you shop around, but interview the counselor as well. The first session will be to establish what you need help with and if she/he will be the best one to counsel you. It's just so easy to fall into the wrong hands, so you do your interviewin' too, now. Don't just take whoever your insurance company pays for. You might have a choice here. You need someone that will be objective, right?
So,
1. What is their specialty?
2. Do they usually counsel couples such as yourself?
3. Do they take spirituality in consideration as well? Are they die-hard religious that will eventually throw their hands up in the air for you not being religious?
4. What is their cultural background? This definitely matters, 'cuz what if in his/her culture the advice they give you is appropriate, but not in Portland, you know?
5. Where were they licensed? I know, it sounds pretentious, but it has to be asked.
Just have questions for them already figured out before you go.
Good luck, lil' sweetie-pies. Auntie Priscilla sends her best!

Pendleton Round Up - see the Merc article from prev year. Hard to find a place to stay there.

There is country Western dancing in the outlying areas see www.portlanddancing.com. No idea if you will find what you are looking for.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPR108kwNo4 ?

Portland is not a cow boy/girl town, just like they probably don't have our culture in other parts of the country. Report back if you find your dream.

No.