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be nice. ok i never had orgasm w sexual intercourse. only w touchin of the female area is this normal?

If there's no touchin of clitoris nothin happens. Is it possible to orgasm without it being touched rubbed against? Like dogstyle position can it happen? Pls be serous no weirdos or perves and I'm married so not lookin for nada but answrs perfer woman to answer lol need info on ways to change this. I can giv more info if need to thanks people

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    It is normal, so no worries. But there are all sorts of alternatives like the ones already mentioned. Another alternative I've found to be the most pleasurable if you want to orgasm during penetration is a very close military position. If you lay back with your man on top of you and you spread your legs enough for your clitoris to be exposed, pull your man close to you as you make love. The friction of his body rubbing against your clit will likely give you a wonderful orgasm... I know it works for me every time. :) I hope you find something that works for you!

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    This is totally normal. Most women don't orgasm without clitoral contact most of the time. It's not to say that you'll never come with vaginal-only contact, but if it's not happening for you, don't sweat it. You're in the majority. One hint I hear pretty often is to get your dude to wear a vibrating cock ring - good for the both of you. There's plenty more advice all over the internets if you go looking for it.

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    I would love to give more detailed advice, but I have to run off. Here's the quickie advice...
    First, you take his junk out of the picture, and then you play with your junk to figure it out.

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    totally normal. and yes it can happen but its SUPER difficult to accomplish for the majority of women. Get you and your hubby some toy, girl! I recommend "bullets" . Trust me, you wont be let down :)

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    it is normal to the point of being talked about in magazines and when me and my friends are complaining about it over drinks.

    it has a LOT to do with age, the older a woman gets the more sensitive her special place becomes. Many women may never experience an orgasm from just coital intercourse without giving themselves the extra help. Or some women don't experience it until they are older.

    I am 29 and I have definitely enjoy sex enough to not always feel the need to provide myself with an orgasm during it, but If I do want one, I have to do that part on my own, or ask my man if he doesn't mind multi-tasking.

    I highly doubt this is something you can change, aside from assisting yourself, but as always, it is best to ask a medical professional whom you trust, they are the most qualified with questions of changing something physical or physiological. In this situation, a female gynecologist will probably have tons of reliable information to provide you with.

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    Is it normal?

    Yes, most women do not climax without direct clitoral stimulation. But that doesn't mean that you can't ever...nor that you can't train yourself to respond to other stimuli.

    And yes, some women prefer the "doggie style" specifically because they are free to use their hands on themselves.

    Don't worry. Enjoy.

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